Can seeing an Escort make you a Better Man?

Many people are misconstrued about what seeing an escort can really mean. Not just the general public but more often than not the man booking themselves.

In my experience men open up so much more especially after being intimate.

Armarni Bulkani Brisbane Escort & Companion

Through out my time as Armarni I have met many men who try to mask their true desires for companionship with solely bedroom based bookings. I guess maybe people find it hard to admit they crave connection, friendship, intimacy, care & affection- personally after years of delving into every part of the industry this is what I excel in.

Given this reflection, I really do want to state how normal this is. Not only is this very common but there are actually many benefits from this sort of interaction.

I have met people from all walks of life- I have met normal everyday people, multi millionaires- men, women, couples. People of all nationalities & an array of career types. One thing I have noticed is yes it is true people are starving for connection.

In a modern world maybe it's the pressures for success, lack of confidence or perception that there is always time. Family pressures or standards, cultural variations, social awkwardness or simply lack of time.

Deeper than that is those healing. Those who have struggled with heartache, divorce, loss, rejection or just outright confusion.

Those who have been open to advice & allowed me to help how I can generally have had vast improvement in their lives.

Some advantages of spending time with a professional companion or Escort to ease the feelings of loneliness are actually relatively simple.

Have you ever noticed in life the more you feel you lack something the less of it you receive? When you are desperately lonely you are likely to venture out and find a mate - possibly one who is not compatible on the long term- whilst this may be fulfilling now it's likely if coming from a place of desperation for either one or both parties the connection will be shortly lived. Time is precious & emotional wounds can be created or endless unnecessary drama.

Seeing a companion can help ease your need for connection, remove desperate mindset and help you step into a more level head for when you do meet someone in the "real world" that you find suitable.

People always seem more attractive when they are not looking for a connection & that's just the way the world works - if you act like you already have or feel as though you do - eventually what you seek will come to you.

Along with removing the feelings of desperation, spending time with a companion who specializes in authentic connections & friendship can be healing. After events like nasty breakups, divorces, loss or impactful life events we can tend to jump into romantic connections too quickly. When this happens we can often take our our unresolved emotional wounds on others, still not healed or moved forward. This is normal because when we are sad about things we often seek intimacy too feel better - but in reality is it fair? Connections that are made off trauma bonds are less likely to work, they can become dependent & end up exaggerating unhealed wounds. More often than not the other party is not really aware they are a "rebound" aswell & it can impact them negatively aswell and in life what goes around comes back around.

Relationships have time commitments & many men are so career focused which is great but they forget that time is needed to maintain & develop a connection. Whilst it may not be your priority right now you should always consider the other person. So for many people it's about having a way they can connect in a way that is suitable for their life & schedule without negatively impacting or deceiving others.

So they don't just want sex?

No far from it, don't get me wrong most men think that's all they want & they do love that part. But I think mental stimulation, care, bond and someone that actually has a real recollection of our last conversation etc is what they truly desire.

I have always been a little too involved with my work at times, remembering things that most would need to write reminders for- maybe like doctors who struggle to switch off from work for me people's stories, problems, goals & dreams I find fascinating & will generally remember those indepth conversations for years. But over the past few years i have been trying to maintain those boundaries more balanced or people can become confused.

Clients (although in honest I feel odd calling them that) whom acknowledge they seek companionship & connection are always going to be better off in my opinion. Generally sex is amplified with connection- if the companion is honest the benefits will soon help in the personal life aswell.

What do I mean by "if the companion honest"?

Many people play games, not only in this business but also in walking life. Yes it increases income - but I always look at things differently in a more karma based way. Personally I don't play with feelings. When connections become close in this job it can become foggy & confusing if not careful- but as harsh as it can seem I'm always upfront- this is my job. You can be one of my favorite people too see- but I won't be your girlfriend or wife...

But what can I be? I can be the person you spend time with - the person who makes you feel like yourself again as you stich up your wounds and get the confidence back again. I can help motivate you to become the man who will attract the type of woman you desire & we can have a great time together whilst doing so. But just like if you want my advice for soemthing i can lead a horse to water but i cannot make it drink or worse i cannot make it understand it is thirsty- so if you want to change things you actually have to listen to the advice and put it into practice.

I can be your date to functions, your plus one for tennis (I'm not very good lol) someone you can go on a weekend away with. I can be someone who cooks you dinner or maybe we cook together. I can help you find a new wardrobe, help you reinvent yourself as the man you want to be. Yes I can do these things all while being your personal pornstar in privacy. The person you open up to- although I'm not a liscenced councellor or therapist- I have had a very interesting life with many paths & experiences so my ability to listen and understand problems & offer soultions are value.

Business men who are always on the road or in the sky who when they are here get tired of having no one by their side. Sometimes they need an ear they can rely on, someone to take their worries away or someone they can have fun and enjoy sometime away from the screens, meetings and calls. Someone who is upfront.

It's probably my favorite but also saddest part of my job for me is when I see those I've helped through parts reach their desired outcomes whether it be fixing things home or finding someone and starting life with them- it's the part I find fulfilling but it's also a little sad sometimes as we can become good friends over the duration of our agreement.

In my opinion connecting with soemone who is very transparent that yes we have a professional friendship but who encourages your healing, growth & finding your right paths can be a great way to help step into the best version of yourself.

But in saying that transparency & full udnerstanding of what the "connection" is exactly is required. It prevents "mess" & further damage to ones emotion

Personally these sort of connections are my favourite, just phsyically based connections eventually bore me if I am honest, I enojoy seeing people progress and change in life & enjoy the friendship that develops. But because it is a good thing, I dont intend to hold onto these connections forever and if I am successful all good things eventually come to an end & in honesty it makes me very happy too see some of the men i have had connections with like this over the years reach their career goals & getting married etc.

So yes in my opinion done so correctly by selecting the right companion for you (who isnt trying to trick you to thinking there will be real love) aswell as beign honest about what you want and realising that its the companions job to provide companionship and time & it costs money- I believe you can utilise this time to become a better man who isn't desperate for connecrtion and therefor welcome someone who is suitalble into your life when you are healed & ready.

xx

Armarni Bulkani.