I've been so happy this past month finally realising how 'in tune' my branding, blogging, website and engagements have been in attracting gentlemen that not only appreciate my time and value me but that I enjoy spending time with.
Sometimes I swear I could talk some of your ears off 😂 we just never seem to run out of conversation.
I cannot stress enough how hard I found this business in the beginning purely because I was afraid to reveal too much of my personality and real self.
Currently I feel like although I'm pretty recognizable and I'm sure all the many people are aware I am me (because I am pretty unique) I feel like I'm more relaxed in my work and enjoying the company I provide at least 99.8% of the time.
Soooo how am I different? Well something I notice hugely is I am not a drinker, partier or a advocate of those things. Your a big boy and can do as you please but don't insult me by offering me. 😅. I think by making it more aware I am quite cultured and have literally 0 interest in those particular things I have found myself involved with others of similar background as well as those who respect that about me and realise how much of less expense a date like me can be. Lol. Some people think I'm just stating I don't drink, smoke or party because apparently most profiles go in that direction. As a adult I have never drank. It's just not my thing it smells like poison and I view it as such haha.
Also being pretty upfront about how there is no way in hell you will get me to arrive in skimpy clothes is another stand out point. I like tight and curve hugging but I always am modest in Length (when you meet me you know sort of thing) incalls expect me to be in lingerie but all blinds are closed 😋.
The hardest part of organising a booking for me is music... expect female vocal trance that's about as English as my music selection gets. I just don't particularly like English music... clubbing in Moscow while drinking expresso shots anyone? Haha but honestly I love international music. I tried the whole English music but Biggie and Tupac was as close to mainstream you could get me and well...that's probably not the most intimate music lol.
My moods have been great the last few weeks.
Being more choosy and ignoring literally 8/10 enquiry' s has made me less angry, more patient and caring and has provided me with more energy to give to my regulars and actual gentlemen who contact me correctly.
Is this bad 'customer service'? Well no, I don't like to treat the gentlemen I see as a customer, client or number in a line up. I use the word known gentleman or regular because yes it is 'buisness' as such but I find myself being more of a companion I tend to remember everything about you and 😊 especially when I've seen you a few times I get to know what you like and how to drive you crazy. In a good way.
I really dislike no name messages for this reason it makes me want to paste your phone number back to you and quote it like a name (I choose who I see 048282iwi2u2 and your enquiry makes me bored already)
Rapport building is important to me so if a man does not seem like the type of person I would wish to invest my time in and did not provide effort showing he is looking for more than 'what's available now' I will not bother.
It's very rare I see a gentleman only once, I have been seeing some of my regulars for over 3.5 years on weekly/fortnightly/ monthly schedules (minus my break). I know most of my regulars very well and in honesty most of them I really enjoy seeing they all have their bursts of uniqueness and individualism that makes me smile.
By ignoring those who don't put in effort I can give better, more attentive companionship to gentlemen who don't make me wish there was a literal slap face button on my phone hehe..
Something so many gentlemen are surprised with when they meet me is finding out in my 'real life' I have social phobia. It's actually super bad I don't feel this way when I am overseas but when I am here ...oooft since being back I've realised just how bad it is. People do stare at me alot and I truly do try to dress down in Queensland but I refuse to wear thongs or slides to shops etc, that's just not me. I'm not entirely sure if this industry has made it worse or if I've just realised how much it impacts me recently. But I honestly really dislike going in public at all in Australia every time I look up someone is staring at me. Someone simply saying hello to me makes me freak out. But yes I may be out going in my apartment and not nervous at all when I welcome you but in outside world or even outcall I do tend to be very observant of my surroundings originally. In this job we have too look for cameras, unexpected guests, open curtains all sorts of things which could make our other lives harder to live. It has also made me more observant in real world scenarios.
Gentlemen that enjoy me tend to be men who not only love a curved, voluptuous external but really enjoy my internal, don't be naughty! I'm talking about my personality.lol. I'm a bit different I'll have you laughing and smiling for hours after our time together. I really do tend to be more of a companion and my personality and aparently manners is very attractive. I am quiet feminine and know how to look after gentlemen my caring nature is generally exactly what men who connect with me are looking for. Great in bed but a real human too~
In other news....
This virus, I notice many people are being hush about this, obviously I am asking if you have been a bit of a frequent flyer recently ensure you keep upto date on your flights news, pay attention to your body and follow instructions given. Also tell me if you have just come from somewhere... If you have been asked to self isolate I am asking you to compete isolation before seeking company with me. I don't wish to join you in your isolation sorry... lol.
I am not taking any international travel requests until September at this stage. When arriving at my incall hot water and detol hand wash, Listerine in disposable shot glass pre and post booking. I have a 0 sickness policy guys~ don't book me if your unwell. Clearly this is not fool proof but at this stage all we can do is aim for efficient hygiene. You will find like myself most colleagues in this industry you will find our hygiene and health is extremely valuable to us (Some of us you could call germaphobic lol). So I am asking you to be transparent about recent travels and medical advice.
Most importantly I'm asking my 'known' gentlemen or even those just having a read be safe and diligent in self hygiene and considerate to those who have been unlucky in recent times. Be kind and considerate to your neighbours and others.
Hope all of you are well and extended to your families also hopefully this situation will be over soon and life will be back to normal. Remember someone may not be directly impacted themselves but their families, friends or loved ones may be in harder hit countries. Be kind.
Hugs and kisses
Armarni B xx