Firstly Welcome to my blog, I wont be liked by many for this blog but hey, I have never really 'fitted in' in this industry anyway. I could just paint you pictures of a lot of money, and not working very often for that. But I will go through somethings people will not go through with you. Each person is a individual in their lives, and just as so are individuals in this industry. Some people love the industry, some wish they never started and some have a love hate relationship with it.
I'll start off by saying I believe at some point or another all 'civilian' women have probably or will probably think about joining the sex industry in some way. Nearly every 'civillian' woman i have told what I do for a living asks me either how they can get started or proclaim they wish they had done the same... Who could blame them I guess in a society where it is actually quite hard to obtain a secure full-time job in order to live independently as a woman. Do not get me wrong there are some powerhouse women out there who work in trades, or who have good educational backgrounds where they have more opportunities to succeed in the world. Others may not have had that educational opportunity, or simply enjoyed youth too much and now as adults either face the reality of working pay check to pay check or trying to study without any idea of how to pay for studies and support themselves. Welcome too life as a marginalized woman I guess. (again for all those who go on about people making presumptions this is my opinion and statistically speaking)
Now let's start with the good things about being a sex worker for me personally and a lot of those I know- each person is different.
This industry has tiers, it has levels and for many the starting level is a place your given the idea of 'sisterhood' and safety. Many girls start in parlors or the very un-glamorous word predominately used in Australia Brothels. Others may start for agencies, pimps, madams. Some may be smart and pay a experienced private worker too mentor them. Others are quiet brave navigate the industry on their own. There are many different parts of the industry- it is then tiered- high end, mid end, low end (and then those who are forced or trafficked).
(now this part of things (trafficking) I feel is completely different so it is not something I will not talk about in this blog as I feel this industry is when you make the decision to start this work or be in the industry. Trafficking is too me one of the worse crimes of the world and those who support it are demons. How you can try to prevent supporting those businesses as a client- I will write a separate blog and link later- the ladies, men and others that are suppressed through crimes of trafficking and exploitation have nothing but my heart felt sympathies and wishes for freedom and justice. I could never imagine their pain and would make the things we whinge about seem pitiful, as it is completely different scenarios and industries. As sex workers we make the choice to be in the industry, as victims they have no choice)
Now I have addressed that I will take you through some negatives I have encountered personally or from those I have met and corresponded with over the years. Again you may love this work, for others though you may find some of these things incredibly difficult.
Its hard stuff, there are good days and bad days and while a lot of high end women would not like too admit that, I think we can all inwardly agree when your first starting its a bumpy road that we all thought would be easier from what we had read, seen or heard. I think we all at some point made unrealistic ideas of the money we would make. I wrote this also because when someone asks me about it I do find myself always talking the positive I think it is because it makes you feel degraded in ways mentioning the bad or like a sympathy seeker or something (im not a psych so i factually have no idea why but I notice this with others too its harder too talk about the negative possibly or the thought that positive attracts positive)-but it is incredibly important too mention the negative because well I wouldn't want some girl reading the stuff I write and thinking its all sunshine and rainbows and starting this job thinking working for 6 months will make her a millionaire and all clients will be great, she will be booked out everyday and have clients who bestow gifts and luxurious dates on her 24/7... Im trying to put some of the truths I have seen out there because in honesty I have met many young girls who did start this thinking it would be different too how it is and that only envisioned sunshine and lolly pops- I'm hoping that anyone considering starting the business will read it and understand that I am not telling you you should or you shouldn't - that is for you too decided, but you should consider things wisely and read as much as you can and consider implications first.
Hope your all well, and stay safe out there everyone
hugs and Kisses
Armarni B xoxo
Its been a difficult year for us all. If your familiar with me you woukd know this year i was getting everything i ever wanted. An extension to the best year of my life last year.
this year clearly hadnt worked out as planned. I planned to be settled overseas by now too have had a nice time with the people i refer to as my family. But here i am in isolation in what appears to be almost Pre end of times. I think in reality im living in a sheltered part of my mind maybe i dont want to accept its real yet. All those numbers and so many people on tv just talking as though they are numbers but they are infact people. Lies and politics- $$ over heart beats. In honesty this world sickens me. Not the nature but the people who run it and how we all follow along like its okay that people are numbers. That money is more important than someones ability to breathe or protect themselves from disease. That some how with people ridden with disease all over the globe there are still missiles being sent there is still war. There are still things hanging over living human beings heads and human beings are being used as pawns in a huge amount of unwinnable wars. You think we would all be loosing enough and could take fingers off the red buttons for a few months and instead of playing blame games come up with a cure. Work together as a human race- one positive thing about alien and zombie movies atleast humans stop worrying about skin colour or religion and have a common enemy.
Anyway... clearly i have had enough and having to sit in a little made up box where i pretend to be in the mood im not doing it. I couldnt feel further like working right now. As many would know im a traditionalist i want to get married have babies and never divorce. So im chillin here in what feels like the begining of the end and i realize im quiet far from who i want to be. This year my life was going to be doing a 180 and a backflip. I intended on that being my own decision but currently i feel as though it has been made for me. I am having sometime out obviously my financial goals have now been shattered like many others. I had alot planned for my year in regards to savings and completing my set up overseas. I wanted to do as much as possible indipendantly.
I'm not too sure where this Covid19 will leave Armarni B, possibly she will still need to make some more savings before the move or possibly i will be heard and it will be time for me to move along. I know logically i will need to return. But i know in my heart what i want and hope for.
i was lucky this last 2 years ive met so many great guys and really fine tuned my online presence too get more of who i really am across. But as those who know me are aware i have a very different part of me and that is what so many of you seem to adore and that part of me is what i am afraid of destroying the most.
I guess time will tell where things are at i hope your healthy and have the support you need. Best of luck guys.
Safety and health
Situation & Avaikability Update. Warning this may be a little heavy in some Parts.
First and foremost the situation of the world is brining me to tears. Knowing how many people I know personally and professionally who are facing illness of loved ones or significant employment issues.
It's no secret this situation unfolding globally is and will impact our careers. Over the last week I have been choosing to be socially distant and stay home. In the year of 2020 things have so far not been kind, world situations constantly unfolding and enough stress to send our eyes blind to the beauty in life. I too hope drastically things will change, that maybe we could hit reset and start the year again. But would we know then what we know now? Or maybe will a lesson or a global solution resolve all of this some how? I don't really know but I'm hoping we all wake up to a decline in virus linear growth tomorrow.
I would like to thank all suitors who have enquired correctly but also inform that obviously planned tours are essentially almost I hope I can at that time and I cannot really guarantee anything until closer to the end of the year.
I have been feeling as though accepting bookings from those I'm unfamiliar with is not worth the risk for short duration bookings with a lower income. During this time I would prefer to limit myself to 1 or possible 2 suitors a week. As much as I am greatful for the shorter bookings of an hour , 30 minutes or 45 in normal settings. During this time in finding myself wishing to keep myself more healthy and available for my well acquainted gentlemen and also suitors seeking longer prebooked appointments as it will decrease my exposure.
Soon I believe I will be ceasing applications from new suitors completely until there has been a proper isolation period and flattening of the curve. Regulars and known suitors I am still happy to see you for an hour but if your seeking a incall a small extra fee may apply if you do not give enough notice as I will be attending the private incall only too see you.
Reminder I also have Netflix and chill packages starting from $600 2 hours.
I am also offering phone services phone sex, sexting and possibly feet fetish video calls soon.
As my privacy is super important to me I do not have a only fans in my personal life I am extremely modest so foot fetish videos, sexting and voice calls are all that's available in the online scenario.
So here is what's changing.
♡My well Acquainted Gentlemen:
Outcalls- rates stay the same for your area, pre-booking is recommended but there are a few I'll climb out of my bed and into yours for and you know who you are.
A last minute incall fee of $50 May apply for same day incalls. FV.
♧Gentlemen I am yet to be Acquainted with:
Minimum booking fee equivalent of $600, Netflix & Chill 2 hour, 1.5 hour booking, erotic relax & passion combo.
I know this is a stretch for some in current circumstances but I need to limit my booking numbers and this measure will assist with that. Deposit and PRE booking required.
◇ Gentlemens Spa services are currently unavailable as all bookings with new suitors require a $600 minimum fee- I can still provide erotic relax but my minimum fee stays in place and I also require Prebooking.
☆please remember a COVID19 questionare will be required to fill out. This is to ask about your exposure and also helps me determine if you are a career of someone who is high risk or are yourself as for the safety of those you care for and yourself I will be putting first and declining your booking. This survey is sent via link ( I made the survey it has 8 questions should take less than 4 mins to complete. Requires no name or personal details it just saves me testing it and asks in a consistent manner to all gentlemen and limits the chances of me forgetting to ask something you simply fill it out and the answers and submission time is in my application- no downloads required just fill and hit complete.)
I have a 0 symptoms policy as I always have for any flu like symptoms and also any std or Sti symptoms. Just don't be the guy thinking it's okay to show up with a fever,sniffles or cough. Not happening.
ALL bookings require deposit please don't even contact me if you think for some reason you will be the exception. I will not risk loosing money and I will not put myself in dangerous situations. Deposits make me feel safer so I require them. Thankyou x.
I know this is a super hard time for all of us. I know literally everyone reading this is somewhat affected by this and like me is probably hoping to wake up from this bad dream as we see the plot thickening.
To those who are currently unwell I wish you a speedy recovery. For those with loved ones currently unwell I wish you strength to help them through this time and that maybe just being emotionally strong for them. For those who mentally are struggling with this doom of the pandemic I wish you peace and some calm to ease through this situation. For those in financial hardship i hope soon it is eased and soon you hesr news of relief and positivity.
For all of those who have lost someone they know or someone they love my deepest sympathies and condolences.
I am sorry for such an emotional post I just know how many of the gentlemen I have met through the years probably have gone home to their countries to help their families or are sitting here in dismay looking at the television screens. I too wish it wasn't real and know I am thinking of you and hoping you, your family, friends and loved ones are safe.
To my dear regulars who have been still supporting me over the last few weeks and ensured me as long as your healthy I will still be your booty call and date night in call, thank you I am so greatful for you all and how well I actually get on with you it's nice to actually really enjoy and look forward to our times together.
Health and safety to you all
Blowing you kisses and hugging you from afar.
Armarni Bulkani Xoxo
COVID-19. What will Change?
Dear Gentlemen, acquainted and un-acquainted I am hoping you are well and healthy.
Sadly the world situation seems to be worsening day by day. I am making this post to simply address how the current events caused by COVID-19 is impacting me personally, business wise and also addressing measures I will be taking personally and within business meetings to limit contracting the virus and help reduce potential spreading of virus.
I know many of my cared for and known gentlemen are experiencing much stress with family and loved ones afar. My deepest sympathies to you and I hope for speedy recoveries of those whom may be affected.
Personally in this country I live alone, am not within conatct of family and due to being fairly 'unique' within Queensland I feel alienated in public and as i dont like being stared at i tend to be introverted when in AUS anyway. My studies I do online and at home as most of my langustics studies are not based here. I'm investing in home gym equipment and some more entertainment outlets. I do not go clubbing or to huge public events so I will not be greatly impacted by that. I will be staying put in Australia during this time also staying within my base of Sunshine Coast and Brisbane.
On the positive studies here I come and possibly I may for once be upto date with Netflix and movies that I can never converse about.
I see some are offering discounts, I will not be. However I have introduced Netflix dates as I am aware some borning times could be on the horizon for the nation.
I will be further limiting who I see in the upcoming weeks. I have been asked if that will be determined by nationality. The answer Definately not. I am unaware why some people think that the virus is only contracted and spread by certain nationalities or demographics. Look around its everywhere now rich, poor, working class it doesn't discriminate. It further angers me in regards to the racism I see in this country and even globally. We are humans and let's face it we will as general public ever know the truth of how this started and the clear intentions of the virus.
Something I do ask is full transparency. If you are feeling unwell inform and re-schedule. If you have started to feel unwell after a booking inform. It is a virus it is not your fault if you contract it ensure to inform all of those you have been in contact with during the time of which could be contracted. That will be vital to limiting spreading. This includes your contact with Service Providers please acknowledge our importance to know too.
Will I cease working?
Currently I do not predict closing buisness and I already do only see a few gentlemen a week mainly regulars as I prefer quality over quantity.
However during peak times of the virus I will be limiting my Availability to gentlemen I already have established business relations and friendships with as I will be relying on transparency and honesty. I believe my known and regular Gentlemen would inform me of any changes to their health and also inform me of recent updates. As I do not have any family members near by who are vulnerable during this time and I am relatively healthy (chronic asthma especially in spring though) I will be available and updating on any changes.
During this time any of those I do meet who require non sms communications I will be asking for a contact email address that I will be using to communicate if anything should change. I will be asking for this email address and sending a email from my discreet business email accpunt prior to booking and asking for a response to ensure there is no junk mail mix up. If I was to need to update of conditions it would be done in that way for those who need discreet communications opposed to SMS.
I am always a Listerine girl, I have alchohol and alchohol free option but I am opting for alchohol. I provide detol hand wash, and hand sanitizer. There is no guarantee of course but I do hope and believe these measures will help limit the chances of contracting and spreading. The gentlemen I spend time with do tend to have rigours hygine practices normally and I believe this will only increase.
Is there a risk in booking?
There is going to be a risk in every scenario for the next few months unless a miracle occurs. Getting groceries, going to doctors, walking down the street. Everything is going to have a risk. Of course those with poor health, and within a at risk demographic of fatality I do recommend to abide by medical advice given and any advice in self isolating.
In this line of work there is always risk, as I provide all safe services I limit many risks incurred in this business but of course risks are never completely eliminated without living in a bubble. I do believe this work increases our immune system as thankfully I have not even been hindered with a cold since starting this work over 4 years ago.
Prior to commencing in this industry I would get pneumonia every year. In summer. This work has actually helped my body in so many ways and made me stronger in both mind and emotion as well. Every year flu season poses a risk, by not seeing symptomatic persons I have always maintained luck in that department however with the no symptoms phase it is of course a higher risk with COVID-19.
Communication will be key during this time, longer dates favoured and of course they will be dates in.
During the phase where I am still taking applications from new suitors prebookings will be required as well as deposits.
Prebookings will ALWAYS be required for incalls existing clients or not as due to a predicted decrease in same day demand I will be only coming to Brisbane for Incalls via Prebooking, a deposit and also booking minimum will be applicable.
Outcall short notice may be available for regular Gentlemen. Un-acquainted gentlemen will be required to provide some notice, a introduction and follow my email communications test or confirm it will be suitable to discreetly inform via sms if any changes occur that require notification. As well as agree to inform myself if any changes occur with their health or possible transmission due to close contact with a person possesing recent positive result. This will help ensure that a clear communication between my close circle is kept and I hope will ensure the trust of those I spend my time with to be taking this seriously and applying all preventative measures possible.
I am also doing naughty prepaid phone time and also prepaid phone companionship for those who want to debrief and need a friendly ear. As I like to keep some things private just for the bedroom and well known suitors they are strictly voice call or sexting only, I'm modest in my private life and prefer to keep my online nudity to a minimum as my discretion is extremely important too me.
I cannot stress enough those who are listening please be kind in this time, think of those around you- some at risk demographic will not have people able to pick up supplies for them and may be concerned. Be kind to people as always we never know what they are going through and with this becoming so wide spread alot of people will be personally affected by this situation and kindness and equality is needed now more than ever. A virus does not racially, demographically or professionally discriminate. Neither should we.
Stay safe, stay informed, follow advice that is relevant to you and your families.
But also continue to live your life as this may be a lengthy journey.
Hugs and kisses
Armarni B xx
Do you dream of hot, steamy, passionate sex in your bed? What man doesnt right? I see many posts constantly on how to be a great enquirer, how to be a great incall client and show up on time, but I have not found many guides for Gentlemen for an Outcall experience. So I decided to great one some men definately have a flare for this (some stump me with how organised they are) others do need a little guidance.
Firstly why an outcall? From a provider point of view it is often more convenient than trying to organise a location to host (i dont work from home).
What Im super interested in doing is providing you the client as to why it in alot of cases is better for you.
Over my years in the industry i have met a vast range of men all with different circumstances but many gentlemen love creating memories in their home or their hotel for their stay. I have heard for them it feels more date like and authentic me arriving in full dress and us conversing before i derobe. But the part i hear they are the most fond particularly in home scenarios is the memories they afyer get to reflect upon.
Lonely nights in bed become more 'interesting' as such.
Although these memories are great there are things you can do that will make your time with your provider flow more smooth, ofcourse making memories even better for you.
but please remember with escorts ultimately you are paying just for that. Time. Whether sexual or not the payment is for time so enjoy it and use it wise, extend if your wishing to prolong time. Never expect your companion to stay for free over time. Many companions have dates and also companionahip packages too. Where if your wanting to have dinner, watch movies and converse its not as high expense to you.
You will find in this business many women are very compassionate, generous and giving, but as a gentleman please don't take advantage of that and understand the value of her time show your generousity and appreciation.
I have been blessed over the years with many great outcalls, here is to a few more months of making some great memories I can leave with my regulars and yet to be known clients.
Remember the better you treat someone generally the better they eill treat and look after you. Show your companion you value her and she will be even more greatful for you.
Hugs and Kisses
There is alot happening right now, for me personally nothing is worse than incalls when i have 50 million thoughts in my head. See i do not have or want guests in my home as this is my personal space, my happy place. So I get accommodation and drive 2 or more hours to my location and then back and repeat. Outside of holiday season it can make sense to do incalls and sit and wait but in honesty i do not know how people do it.
For years I was outcall and prebookings only, sometimes it would frustrate me but with the ease of Beem it for deposit it has become very easy. The act of waiting annoys me when id prefer to be at home or on the beach not in Brisbane... I can deal with this most days but recently there has been many situations around the globe and in honesty I need to be at home at times outside of bookings. Sitting around waiting is just not for me even with prebookings i just honestly need to remain busy. If a gentlemen cannot prebook and book a long enough session or host from accomodation (aka get a hotel if you cannot have guests) I dont feel as though the emphasis is on wanting to see me. I have many clients that organise our times together in advance and are more than generous. I feel right now spending time with them or like minded gentlemen only is what is needed.
So for the next while I am thinking of switching to outcall, FM2Y or incall extended date bookings (4+hrs) only all needing prebooking and deposits. I just feel right now I have other priorities to focus on & sitting in apartments dealing with men who dont read sms me 'hi' etc or calling (i donf accept calls without SMS first, have had many creepers wanting free phone services calling me before). Its just frustrating and in honesty i think i will primarily be focusing on my regulars who do interstate FM2Y and outcalls between Sunshine Coast and Brisbane. If someone books longer bookings and prepay i am happy to book accomodation but I cannot stand waste, waste of my time or waste of a apartment for a few hours.
Right now i am stressed and worried over situations occuring I am concidering removing upcoming tours aswell and catering only to requests mentioned above. I enjoy hosting i just dont enjoy sitting in an apartment when i would rather be at my home i like to go for my walks on the beach, spend time with my friends and just enjoy cooking in my kitchen and being in my own space or i like to be entertained...
Anyways there is so many more problems than Armarni being sick of parts of the lifestyle lol. I really hope everyone is safe and i hope rainfalls soon.
Be safe all,